I have seen too many women that are not married or childless women say it like its so easy being a mom.
1. ” When my child sleep, I would sleep too.” Wrong! You can’t sleep when your child sleeps because you have dishes to do, the laundry is piling up, the kitchen and the living room floor is a mess.
2. “Find a job.” As much as it would help me financially, I can’t handle the stress and the fatigue. I do not have my mom or maid to help me with the chores and children when I get home. If you do, yeah u can work.
3. “Why don’t you have more kids.” Seriously, I don’t mind but referring to point no. 2, we may consider your donations.
4. “Ma’am could you please fold your pram.” Like could you please help me with my children then.. Hold their hands, carry them, and oh, the shopping bags too please.
There is so much these people don’t know. I will just have to wait till they get their own and see them suffer and I will be laughing from the inside.
Once you become a mom the 1st thing you noticed are the stretchmarks, the darken pigmentations, which makes all moms insecure about revealing skin and we cover it all up. Some may lose the pregnancy weight some may not.
We dont dress up often as we need to bend down, stand up, ran around, we get infant vomit and saliva on our clothes. Earrings, necklaces, bracelets become objects for the young ones to tuck and pull onto. Say no to heels cause we have to carry around a 10kg baby in our hands, the worst thing is to fall. (But just imagine carrying a sack of rice while wearing heels, its torture.) Make up, don’t talk about make up because sometimes we don’t even have the time to get a proper shower. One minute you are in the bathroom and the next thing you hear is your infant crying… We all try to dress up and put in effort on special occasions, we all try to dress up nice for our husbands. We do want to feel beautiful.
I want to start blogging again but I am afraid it is just a passing phrase.
I want to blog about my marriage and how life changes after having kids.
But I don’t know where to begin.
Father and daughter #shoes
I forgot who I am.
A jar of milk to nourish the weak. #milk #typo #five
Collecting home decor stuff. My favorite is the candel holder on the bottom right hand corner.